Well there’s a mistake in this life, and that we all make. we all at a particular moment we get up in a morning and we’re full of our yesterday’s burden, with all the packages of problems that we carry. we get up and say i want a reboot , i want a new page for my life.
Well i’m sorry to say, and that i say to my self too, there’s no new page to open, the new page that you’ll open either it has a back ( a verso) that when you get it into light it shows the writings on the back, or you’re opening a new page with blank verso but it’s facing the writing on the previous page.
This new page that we all care about and trying to open, and we are eager to discover what we’re going to write on it.
We just open it and the first sentence to write is not come up.
This new page that we’re trying to build our new life in it, it’s a part of a book, and it’s a good thing that this page is a part of a book, we all know that paper that we cut off from a book, where it ends up, from place to another, from pocket to another until one day it becomes a peace of trash that we throw it, sometimes we try to recover the main info in it before throwing but in most cases we throw it as there’s not much to recover.
So as i see things, it’s a great thing to keep your new page in that book, that book where you have written a whole life of your’s, that book where you have transcript the experiences that you lived, that book where you gathered all your feelings, memories, failures,… etc.
Well here some small advices that i can assure that they will help you get in your success track:
Before opening that new page, either backing or facing the previous writings, get the next page of your life book, and try to sum up your life in it:
NB : in this Part i really mean that paper in a notebook. take a pen and a note book to write.
- write down your most Negative Experiences
- write down your worst failures
- write down the most habits you don’t like
NB : in my point of view, starting by thinking about negative thoughts make you more curious to get out from the bad and search for your Best and happy moments.
- Write down your good Memories
- Write down your best success
- Write down your Best Qualitites
By this step we summarise our life in a brief way, we have gathered our best enemies and best friends in one page.
For that Famous new page, new beginning that we all search for, here we can open it up in our current book without fear of getting all the burden of the book, but we have summarised our life in the previous page where we got our bad experiences that we will fight to avoid, and we got our best moment in life that we will fight to keep and fight more to achieve.
our book of life is mountain of rocks and flowers, we need to look at it’s positive bright side, every experience we live is a lesson to learn from, do not run from your past as it’s the one who taught you life and taught you tricks and sheets to live among this world of success and failures, of good and bad things, of friends and enemies.
but don’t let it destroy your present and future life, keep the memories for lessons purpose only and enjoy your little success to forget your pain, enjoy every single little success that you reach, this will help you keep your positive mood and keep you on the success and winning path.
Other small points that i want to share with you
- be thankful for every single happy moment
- be happy whenever you remember good memories and be careful whenever you think about bad moments (learn and turn your back to it)
- Help others it will make you see life diffentely
- be patient & don’t rush, all comes when it’s time for it to show up
- Forgive people, it will release a loot of stress from your past.
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